( Pics of cute kids in costume! )
selenite went out with the kids, since I clearly am not up to that yet. I was staying home to hand out candy.
selenite had been kind enough to bring down from our bedroom the big wooden chair that has been the most comfortable thing for me to sit in lately, and set me up with that, a wooden tray table, bowl of candy, and my sock knitting. After a couple door answers, I decided to move the whole thing outside to be more visible. Our front door is a bit tucked back away from the house, as I realize at Halloween when it seems lots of kids pass by our house and don't realize we're playing. The only decoration we have is a little ceramic pumpkin that goes over a candle.
selenite did put that out in the yard more easily visible from the sidewalk, on top of an upside-down pot. I figured better to get outside and more visible. I'm glad I did, it made me feel more a part of things and I enjoyed myself more, and had time for lots of thinky thoughts.
I got a number of kids doing it for the first time. I think I must have looked like an ideal house for parents to direct wee little ones to - clearly playing, clearly an adult there waiting, a motherly-looking woman, the kid didn't have to ring the doorbell or risk getting rebuffed. But also we didn't have heavy scary decorations, or look like there would be anything to jump out or make scary noises. The wee little ones were adorable. I'd wait a moment to see if they could say trick-or-treat yet, or prompt them gently, then give them the candy and smile and tell them happy Halloween whether they could or not. One little girl was adorable - I asked her if she could say Trick-or-treat. She looked up at me wide-eyed and shook her head no. I gave her candy, and she said softly "thank you." She had the important part down! Another little girl was caroling "Trick-or-treat!" as she ran up the sidewalk, clearly this was the year that she Got It! and she was so proud.
I did get cold. I went in and got the purple scarf
bkseiver made me a few years ago (
this one, and if you want to see something amusing,
look at this, Maggie was 18 months and Jamie was 10 days old), that helped warm me up. Useful for knitting, too - if I needed to set down the working needle, I just stuck it in the scarf. After
selenite was inside with the kids, he brought me his jacket and the gloves I loaned them, but it's hard to knit in the gloves, so I mostly kept those off. I had him bring me hot chocolate later. We went through all the candy, and some of our own candy I had squirreled away. But then I try to give generous handfuls rather than just one piece. The last batch was a bunch of teenage boys with only a thin pretense at costumes - I know back in Los Angeles, it would have made me feel afraid, here I just laughed with them and handed them candy.
I was feeling envious of so many of my friends who have spent this weekend at costume parties and having fun. They get to have fun and be around people and be admired and all that. Heck, I envied those who could even have a fun costume and go trick-or-treating with their kids. But I reminded myself that I should focus on being grateful that I'm recovered enough from surgery that I could be downstairs and sitting long enough to do this.
I pretty much finished up the baby sock I was working on, too. I don't know how much of a KIP (Knitting In Public) it is when you're sitting at your own front door, but it's fun anyway, got a couple of comments on it.