
I got a call this morning from someone in the church leadership. They had a meeting, and it has been decided they will be making an announcement from the pulpit and notifying the congregation by letters. So I feel a great weight off me. I am glad they are not leaving things to the rumor mill. I much prefer that the actual facts get out.
There are things that have been done that I would have done differently, yes. But those people have the jobs they do, not I. And the things I said Sunday that were the essentials, notifying the congregation of the facts, are being done. In fact, they're even going a bit more dedicated than I'd asked for - I'd have been satisfied with a pulpit announcement and something in the newsletter. So this is good.
Apparently some of the claims the girlfriend were making may not be true. It makes me _very_ glad that I had made a point Sunday when talking to the president that yes, I'd heard these things, but I could not verify them, they were at best hearsay, so no, I did not think it would be appropriate to include them in any announcements, just the verifiable facts. That makes me feel that I kept my head, and glad I don't have anything I feel I need to back down from. I still would like to know verifiably what the terms of the guy's parole were, but I probably never will, and I suppose it isn't necessary. I know he's on the database, I know he's not coming back, and the parents are being warned.
Interesting that I got a call this morning, rather than just hearing with the others. Possibly this means that what I said made a difference in what happened. Or possibly they think I'm a total loose cannon. Hopefully not. I certainly did not *want* to have to make a public fuss, and since they're doing what is necessary I'm very glad I won't have to.
Given comments both here and from people involved about someone like this reforming, I gave some thought to precisely how someone like that could honestly reform and attend a church. It is possible, I thought out the ideal way to do it. This guy sure didn't.
Heaving a huge sigh of relief.