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I just got back home from the appointment with the orthopedic specialist. (For anyone not up to date, I have major coccygodynia problems)

WOO-HOO! They're going to FIX the problem!

They were efficient at getting me in. The nurse had clearly read the forms I'd filled out and the extra stuff I'd typed up detailing the pain, the history, and all that. She looked at the xray and said yeah, there's the problem. The doctor came in, talked to me about the pain and where it was, took a look at the x-rays I'd brought, and said "Oh, that's going to have to come out." He did a rectal exam, which was well, pretty unpleasant, but such is life.

I went in expecting I'd probably have to convince the doctor that yes, I was a good candidate for this surgery, I'd read up on it and here were these info papers I had on it and here was why I fit the profile. Whoa. I'm getting the surgery!

They offered a first date of Sept. 21st, but that would have totally trashed FenCon. I wish I could have gotten this done earlier and been recovered by then, but oh well, too late for that. So it looks like Oct. 12th is the likely date. They'll be clearing things with insurance and calling me to set it up.

The tough part is going to be recovery from the surgery. This is NOT something you just bounce back from. Once I do recover from it, life will be much better in the long run. But the short term is going to be problematic. [livejournal.com profile] selenite is concerned about me trying to do too much too soon and aggravating things and making the recovery a lot harder. He's threatening to record a message about it and make my PC play it every couple of hours. I'm all for taking it easy and making sure I recover properly. BUT - I have this 24/7 job that can't be set aside. Two small children. I was hoping that [livejournal.com profile] bkseiver (my mom) could come out and help for a while. She says she has Eastern Star stuff a few days after my surgery, and then is planning to help with a church fair in November, so it doesn't sound likely. I'm not sure yet what we're going to do. But we have to get this fixed. It's really dominating my life these days. And of course, all that pain is because the dislocated joints are causing tissue damage, the sooner that's cleared up the better.

This is going to be serious surgery, but I think it will really make things better. And I owe major thanks to [livejournal.com profile] technomom, who sent me to the www.coccyx.org site, that told me about this surgery and had the referral list of doctors that I found this specialist on.

Oh, and I feel MAJOR vindictive pleasure and a mad HAH! at the stupid previous specialist, who wouldn't listen to me and wouldn't look at the X-rays but insisted that I had a lumbar disc problem. HAH.

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Date: 2005-09-13 03:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shadefell.livejournal.com
Congratulations to you!

Do you have any information or links about the surgery? Previous posts? I'd love to hear about it.

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Date: 2005-09-13 03:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] celticdragonfly.livejournal.com
My previous posts on this I'd f-locked - I'm going out on a limb and leaving this one open. I recommend the www.coccyx.org site.

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Date: 2005-09-13 03:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shadefell.livejournal.com
Thanks!

Good luck with this... and with the kids. ARGH.

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Date: 2005-09-13 03:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] selenite.livejournal.com
Yay!

I was so hoping that would be his response to the x-rays, but I didn't want to say it out loud and jinx it.

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Date: 2005-09-13 04:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ciorstan.livejournal.com
Yeah, what he said!

Yayyy!

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Date: 2005-09-13 04:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] telophase.livejournal.com
Congratulations!

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Date: 2005-09-13 04:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jazz007.livejournal.com
Yay, fixing!!! Best of luck with it all!

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Date: 2005-09-13 04:46 pm (UTC)

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Date: 2005-09-13 04:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] joyeuse13.livejournal.com
Hm...this might count as short-term disability. Does your regular health insurance have any kind of disability coverage? I'm thinking in terms of hiring a part-time nurse to come help out.

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Date: 2005-09-13 05:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] celticdragonfly.livejournal.com
I think short-term disability only matters if you're employed. I'll mention it to Karl, though.

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Date: 2005-09-13 05:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] joyeuse13.livejournal.com
I think you're right...but I have heard of regular health insurance covering in-home nursing. It's rare, but you could check.

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Date: 2005-09-14 09:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wolfrick.livejournal.com
I'm pretty sure the FMLA means he's entitled to take -his- sick-leave to take care of you and the kids while you recover. Trouble is, once the sick leave and vacation leave is used up, they don't have to pay him while he's out.
I hope to have quit my 'day-job' by then, so I hope we'll be able to help out if and when you need us.

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Date: 2005-09-13 08:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kk1raven.livejournal.com
Good luck with the surgery and recovery. A specialist who refuses to look at the X-rays doesn't seem very compitent to me. It is good that you found someone better to see.

Best Wishes

Date: 2005-09-14 01:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ndrosen.livejournal.com
May it all go well. Have a complete and speedy recovery, but don't overstrain yourself thinking it was speedier than it was. Sorry I can't help out with the children, but I'm a long way off.

Re: Best Wishes

Date: 2005-09-14 08:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] carbonelle.livejournal.com
Seconding Mr. Rosen's remarks and... I know how careful you are with your kids - and I respect that - but is there any local paid help that can come in and assist your recovery?

If the answer is "yes," let us know: Maybe we can round up the moolah to make it (or part of it) a reality.

Godbless

Re: Best Wishes

Date: 2005-09-14 09:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tygerr.livejournal.com
Maybe we can round up the moolah to make it (or part of it) a reality.

Wouldn't be the first time this gang of crazies made something like that happen....

Re: Best Wishes

Date: 2005-09-15 02:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] celticdragonfly.livejournal.com
If we need to, one option is contacting the doula who helped the week after Jamie was born, when the midwives wanted me flat on my back as much as possible. (Having been rather anemic during the pregnancy) She took care of most everything for a week. Should have been two weeks, but we went to my parents' house for Xmas a week after Jamie was born. (He was over 2 weeks late) She's not inexpensive, but I'm sure we'll manage.

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Date: 2005-09-14 08:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] toraks.livejournal.com

Yay!! And Good Luck!!

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Date: 2005-09-14 09:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tygerr.livejournal.com
HAH, indeed!

Good luck with surgery, recovery, and especially with the kid issues during that time. And yes, I think Karl should make good on his threat to make the computer nag you. I might even suggest a Webcam so he can monitor your compliance....

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Date: 2005-09-15 02:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] celticdragonfly.livejournal.com
Compliance is all very well and good - IF there's somebody ELSE doing my work. Taking care of small children HAS to keep happening.

My mother-in-law is coming out for the first 10 days, so I certainly should be complying through those.

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Date: 2005-09-16 02:23 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] filkferengi
Congratulations! The prospect of impending relief should make Fencon even more fun.

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Date: 2005-09-16 02:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] celticdragonfly.livejournal.com
Eh, I hope so. I'm afraid I'm going to be in so much pain and moving like an elderly cripple - and between how little I can exercise and a mess-up with my thyroid meds, I've gained more weight which makes it worse - I may not be having a lot of fun...

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